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Apr 27

April 27, 2017

Fighting For Marriage When Chronic Illness is Present

Fighting For Marriage When Chronic Illness is Present

Today, Ryan and I went live to talk about what fighting for marriage when chronic illness is present looks like for us. You can check it out here. Share on Tumblr... Read more

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Jan 30

January 30, 2017

The Dangers of Love on the Wildwood Exit

The Dangers of Love on the Wildwood Exit

You hear a lot about happiness on your wedding day.   He just seems to make her so happy.   The bride was beaming with happiness.   I hope you two live happily ever after.   And whether she realizes it or not, every blushing bride prances down the aisle with her own vision of what her happily ever after... Read more

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Nov 6

November 6, 2016

How to Cultivate Gratitude in the Midst of Hardship

How to Cultivate Gratitude in the Midst of Hardship

2012 was that year.  The Murphey’s Law year.  Everything that could go wrong did, and it took everything we had to survive it…literally. It was the third year of my son’s leukemia treatment, the total duration of which lasted over 3 years.  Additionally, I started out the year with mono and thyroid failure, which I attribute to the enormous stress of parenting... Read more

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May 2

May 2, 2016

How to Navigate Sickness in Marriage

Till Sickness Do Us Part?

On a balmy June evening, with the sand beneath us, the waves behind us and the sun bathing us in its golden light, my husband and I committed our lives to one another. “For richer or for poorer, in sickness or in health, as long as we both shall live” we giddily declared our love for one another. Which wasn’t... Read more

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Feb 25

February 25, 2016

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Can You Love Me At All?

“Can you love me at all?” Marriage is hard they say. Hard, but wonderful. It takes work. It’s not all it’s cracked up to be. The first year is the hardest. These are all things I’ve heard throughout my adult life. These are statements married friends make to remind single friends marriage isn’t quite what we think it is. They... Read more

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Feb 18

February 18, 2016

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Can You Love Me Anyway?

Can you love me anyway? (Fighting to Stay Married While Your Spouse Fights to Stay Alive)   “It’s okay if you don’t understand if you don’t get it, but can you love me anyway?” ~the spouse who is ill   Marriage is hard. You knew that already, right? Actually, all of what I’m about to say is probably nothing new for... Read more

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Feb 8

February 8, 2016

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What It’s Like To Be Married To The Chronically Ill

Roses are red. Violets are blue. Sometimes I wonder how we get through. Life, that is. How do we (my wife and I) get through a life that requires an all-star team, when half the team is on injured reserve? How do I—in my dual role as coach—also juggle team morale issues, logistical concerns and what to do about all... Read more

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Jan 7

January 7, 2016

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Broken Together

How I wish we could go back to simpler times Before all our scars and all our secrets were in the light Now on this hallowed ground, we’ve drawn the battle lines Will we make it through the night? It’s going to take more much more than promises this time Only G-d can change our minds   Maybe you and... Read more

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