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Jan 23

January 23, 2017

Sickness Is Your Superpower

Sickness Is Your Superpower

You drink in the warmth of the sun on your skin, your hair dancing in the breeze, the sound of children laughing in the background. Somewhere, someone is grilling steaks for dinner. The scent is nothing less than glorious and today, you are in love with life. Yes, your joints are just as swollen as they were yesterday and your... Read more

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Jan 20

January 20, 2017

Can I Have A New Mom?

Can I Have a New Mom?

We sat around our well-worn kitchen table, my four-year-old excitedly reporting on the fun she’d had that day at Grandma and Grandpa’s house. There had been nature walks and scavenger hunts, pool-time and even bowling. I strained to hold my body up and utter whole sentences in response while we ate the take-out my husband had purchased on the way... Read more

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Jan 9

January 9, 2017

Meagan's Secret

Meagan’s Secret

Meagan is smart and witty and successful. Meagan is unflappable. She has three children, who are so cute you could eat them with a spoon as well as a handsome, successful husband. She is living the suburban American dream. But not long ago Meagan told me a secret. She has Hepatitis B. A blood-borne disease, often considered an STD. She... Read more

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Jan 5

January 5, 2017

The One Who Comes to Steal

The One Who Comes to Steal

Have you ever fallen victim to a robbery? Perhaps while you were slumbering, one foot thrust outside of the covers and one resting peacefully within oblivious to the deafening sounds of your partner’s ear piercing snores, someone approached. A masked man shattered glass and your sense of safety all in one fell swoop. They ransacked your home in search of... Read more

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Jan 2

January 2, 2017

A Change in Perspective

A Change of Perspective

I feared the night was coming, but felt helpless to stop it.  I did all the things you can think of to prevent it and yet there I was walking into the ER trauma room, the wife of a drunk driver.  What would they think of me?  What would they think of him?  Did he get what he deserved?  What... Read more

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Dec 5

December 5, 2016

On Taking Time Away

On Taking Time Away

I’ll be back! I’m taking this Holiday Season to just be.  I wish you a joyful, restful Holiday Season with the ones you love! While I won’t be updating my blog in this time you can still find me at: Her View From Home The Mighty IG Living Magazine Global Genes     Share on Tumblr... Read more

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Nov 28

November 28, 2016

People-The Problem AND the Solution

People: The Problem AND The Solution

That’s me in front, on my 3rd birthday. With me are my brothers Mike and Gary, and uncle Todd in the middle. Todd was more like a brother, as he was only a year older than Mike and spent lots of time with us. I am the lone survivor from this picture. (Cheerful post, right? Hang in there, we’ll turn... Read more

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Nov 23

November 23, 2016

3 Ways to Seek Out Gratitude in the Difficult Times

3 Ways to Seek Out Gratitude in the Difficult Times

Sometimes I get angry and super down about my health situation. That’s ok. Keeping a positive outlook is clearly a better option than having a negative one. Having a mostly positive outlook doesn’t mean that everything is perfect all of the time, it only means that it is possible to be positive and strong while also being human and honest.... Read more

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Nov 3

November 3, 2016

How to Keep on Living When the Pain Doesn't End

How to Keep on Living When the Pain Doesn’t End

It has been four months since Grace came down with a virus that has turned into a nightmare of doctor appointments, tests, and non-answers, as she continues to battle pain and fatigue. Her head and stomach hurt constantly, she gets tired easily, school seems to exacerbate it all (though whether that is physical or emotional, I can’t quite work out),... Read more

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Oct 20

October 20, 2016

An Open Letter to the Chronically Ill

An Open Letter to the Chronically Ill

It is my honor to love and serve you. While it is true I don’t understand your medical condition; I can’t relate to physically not being able to get out of bed each day, and I don’t comprehend your insecurity of not being enough. I do want to tell you that you are valued. You are appreciated. You are enough.... Read more

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