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Feb 20

February 20, 2017

What Do You Treasure Most?

What Do You Treasure Most?

“What do you treasure most?” This was the question gingerly tossed out among friends. A smirk crossed my face as I listened to the first answer. Ah, young love. Surely, only it could drive a grown man to invest hours in hand painting a heart-covered teapot for his love? Then a full on smile broke out, such beauty. Yes, I... Read more

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Feb 13

February 13, 2017

How One "Spoonie's" Bravery Healed My Heart

How One “Spoonie’s” Bravery Healed My Heart

Some people open their mouths and change your whole world. They tell their story and suddenly your fractured heart begins to heal itself. Confusion and isolation, your long-time companions go out for a smoke break. Someone is singing your heart’s song when you didn’t even know they knew the words. So this is what it feels like? To be seen,... Read more

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Feb 6

February 6, 2017

10 Ways You Can Help Me on the Bad Days

10 Ways You Can Help Me on the Bad Days

Living with chronic illness is hard. There are days the pain, fatigue, and every-day-ness of it is too much to push through. A huge part of chronic illness, at least for me, is pushing through because giving up isn’t a choice, but there are some days when it’d be easier than others to throw in the towel. Your friends want to help.... Read more

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Feb 2

February 2, 2017

Learning to Live in Times of War and Famine of the Soul

Learning to Live in Times of War and Famine of the Soul

I sat before the doctor; equal parts wise and kind, spritely and gentle. He has one tuft of white hair that shoots straight up while the others have been tamed. Somehow this makes me love him all the more. His spectacles sit low on his nose as he studies my most recent labs. He is eager to get to work.... Read more

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Jan 23

January 23, 2017

Sickness Is Your Superpower

Sickness Is Your Superpower

You drink in the warmth of the sun on your skin, your hair dancing in the breeze, the sound of children laughing in the background. Somewhere, someone is grilling steaks for dinner. The scent is nothing less than glorious and today, you are in love with life. Yes, your joints are just as swollen as they were yesterday and your... Read more

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Jan 20

January 20, 2017

Can I Have A New Mom?

Can I Have a New Mom?

We sat around our well-worn kitchen table, my four-year-old excitedly reporting on the fun she’d had that day at Grandma and Grandpa’s house. There had been nature walks and scavenger hunts, pool-time and even bowling. I strained to hold my body up and utter whole sentences in response while we ate the take-out my husband had purchased on the way... Read more

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Jan 9

January 9, 2017

Meagan's Secret

Meagan’s Secret

Meagan is smart and witty and successful. Meagan is unflappable. She has three children, who are so cute you could eat them with a spoon as well as a handsome, successful husband. She is living the suburban American dream. But not long ago Meagan told me a secret. She has Hepatitis B. A blood-borne disease, often considered an STD. She... Read more

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Jan 5

January 5, 2017

The One Who Comes to Steal

The One Who Comes to Steal

Have you ever fallen victim to a robbery? Perhaps while you were slumbering, one foot thrust outside of the covers and one resting peacefully within oblivious to the deafening sounds of your partner’s ear piercing snores, someone approached. A masked man shattered glass and your sense of safety all in one fell swoop. They ransacked your home in search of... Read more

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Jan 2

January 2, 2017

A Change in Perspective

A Change of Perspective

I feared the night was coming, but felt helpless to stop it.  I did all the things you can think of to prevent it and yet there I was walking into the ER trauma room, the wife of a drunk driver.  What would they think of me?  What would they think of him?  Did he get what he deserved?  What... Read more

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Dec 5

December 5, 2016

On Taking Time Away

On Taking Time Away

I’ll be back! I’m taking this Holiday Season to just be.  I wish you a joyful, restful Holiday Season with the ones you love! While I won’t be updating my blog in this time you can still find me at: Her View From Home The Mighty IG Living Magazine Global Genes     Share on Tumblr... Read more

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